The 15 laws of literary life every writer should know

If you are not a writer, you probably have a certain perception of literary life. Hollywood loves to portray the drink and drug addled escapades of wild writers like Hemingway, Hunter S. Thompson and Truman Capote. The truth is more mundane.

Here are 15 universal truths unearthed from years of banging at keys and gazing at a flickering cursor.

The laws of literary life

1. Where before you had real-life, flesh and bone friends, 96% of your social life will now occur online.

2. Hemingway said in order to write you just need to sit at a desk and open a vein. When things are going badly, it is important to remember this is a metaphor.

3. Most of your best ideas will surface at 4am, when you do not have pen and paper on your bedside table and you have a hangover.

4. Your family will be convinced a character is either based on them or actually them. Nothing you say will persuade them otherwise.

5. In the morning, yesterday’s words that you regarded sublime will seem mediocre.

6. In the morning, yesterday’s words that you regarded mediocre will seem the worst thing anyone has ever written.

7. Everyone you meet at parties will be either writing a novel, be about to or know someone who is. They will want to talk about this.

8. Nobody will notice or care if you grow a beard. Especially if you are a man.

9. Coffee and biscuits are the other 4% of your friends.

10. Dividing money earned into hours spent will end badly.

11. There are some lovely and wonderful fellow writers out there. You will never meet them.

12. When you send your manuscript to your agent or editor after two years of blood, sweat and tears, a glorious, warm feeling rises within you. This lasts for ninety seconds. Move on to the next book.

13. Nobody understands what you really do. Except other writers and perhaps the cat.

14. That dull office job you once had, with regular income and holidays and colleagues and fixed hours and Christmas parties and sick pay and a pension looks more appealing each year.

15. You know it is a bad week when even your online stalker emails to criticise your latest book.